« Last post by relik on February 20, 2017, 08:43:47 AM »
That's bullshit Sun. No offense.
Obviously you like her. That's #1.
#2, why assume that her having a kid means it's a bad situation to get yourself into the middle of? I can speak personally to this, without going into detail. I *know* there are many great single mom's looking for a nice guy to be with. If anything, I think being a single parent really puts things into perspective for people and makes them, if anything, better potential partners.
#3, It's not like she needs you now (she's raising a kid on her own), so it's not like if you become involved in her life, she's suddenly going to rely on you and cause you a bunch of pressure, etc etc (not saying that you were fearing this, but just pointing it out)
#4, It doesn't hurt to ask and see where things go. You can also part amicably if things aren't working out and then you'd never have to worry about things being awkward at your local grocer.
I hope you reconsider and I hope it works out!